The only thing that's, going to make you happy my friend and this year or any other, is to step up it's. To raise the standard. It's to discover what you're, capable of and feel that incredible power pushing through whatever's, holding you back and getting to the other side of more of your true self. Don't. Let this year be like last and if last year was great, still don't, let it be that way raise the standard it's, not what we get that makes us happy. It's, who we become and what we're able to give because we've become more [ Applause ]. You want to know how to change your life and give it to you in three words boring as it sounds, raise your standards. There is no excuse for not living up to the political politicians and i stopped being a victim. I stopped saying I've got to wait for good things to happen to me, and I said I'm going to rhyme. I'm going to fight. I'm going to work. I'm going to press towards. I'm, going to learn. I'm, going to do everything in my power every single day I'm going to do everything in my power to become a victor. Not a victim winners win and losers. Lose i can't, explain it any better than that, but winners win, and if you create a culture of losing, if you keep being a victim, it's. Gonna become a culture. Does it take to successfully create a lasting change in your life to not only have a new year's resolution you follow too long, but really have a lasting change. The secret is progress. Getting things is not going to make you happy that's, good news in a tough economy, it's, a good reminder. You know it doesn't matter. What you get doesn't matter, whether it be money or opportunity. All those things might excite you for the moment. You know even a relationship as magnificent may be might be exciting for a while. But if you don't keep growing. That relationship, isn't going to stay, excited progress, equals happiness, and if we can make progress on a regular basis, we feel alive and that's. Why, at the beginning of the year, we get this thing like okay, I can have this fresh start. I can really do what my soul desires. I could expand, I could grow, I could improve, I could change or maybe better than change. I could progress. You never look at yourself in the mirror and say you let you down until you get to that point. You let you die you! Never! You're, not brave enough. You want to put it on somebody else. The reason why I'm not successful, is because of my boss. Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and said I'm not getting up on time. I'm not going to work on time. I'm, not putting in 120 when I'm at work. I let me down. I have standards, I have value. I value myself enough to give 120, but don't. Do it that's. The problem with some of you, You always want to blame other people. You always want to. You want to hold other people to the fire, but you're, not holding yourself to the fire. You need to tell you no more tv. No more snacks, no more dessert, no more! No! We working out now, no, no more alcohol, not right! Now, not! No! I can't handle it right. Now. You need to tell you that you owe you something you want. You know what's so funny. We want people to make guarantees to us, but we're, not willing to make guarantees to ourselves. And if you're going to be successful in life. If you go knowledge and you're, going to go from good to great you've got to get to a point where you go from now to birth. What does that mean action?